Coping with Divorce
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What to do when everything seems hopeless
Coping with divorce has been a topic of conversation in my life for the past 3 years. “How am i going to make it though?” were the thoughts that kept running through my mind each day. I am ecstatic to say that I am now on the other side (1 year post divorce), thriving, finally at peace in my life and in the most beautiful relationship i could possibly wish for. I am here to share what healing crystals help me make it through and support me during one of the most challenging times of my life.
Coping with divorce- Healing Crystals for clarity, courage and hope
This is probably one of the most difficult blogs for me to write because it brings up old emotions that i would much rather leave in the past. But for teaching purposes I choose to bring myself back to that emotional place for a moment so that I can share with you a way to make a difference as you cope with divorce or separation. Perhaps you know someone in your life that can use the support coping with divorce. Please feel free to forward my blog. There many times that I felt hopeless, scared, alone and felt that i couldn’t cope another minute. I reached for certain gemstones to pull me through. I cannot imagine life without my crystals for support and healing. A few days before I left my home I piled on the Quartz for clarity. Three of them on the left wrist. When would be the right moment? How was I going to do this? What would I say? How would I explain this to my 3 kids? I felt sick. I tuned in to a higher place to feel what kind of support I needed to get through this time. I felt like a needed a soft loving energy for support with an immediate connection to spirit for clarity. Rose Quartz, Labradorite, Aquamarine and Rutilated Quartz were all healing crystals piled on my right wrist.
Coping with divorce- clear Quartz- Master Healer
Quartz is the most powerful healing and energy amplifier and the planet. Found worldwide, it absorbs, stores, releases, and regulates energy and is excellent for unblocking it. This crystal works on a vibrational level attuned to the specific energy requirements of the person needing healing or undertaking spiritual work. It takes the energy to the most perfect state possible, going back to before the issue needing healing set in. It cleanses and enhances the organs and subtle bodies and acts as a deep soul cleanser, connecting the physical dimension with the mind. At a spiritual level, this crystal raises energy to the highest possible level. Clear Quartz works on all levels of being. Storing information like a natural computer, these crystals are a spiritual library waiting to be accessed. Quartz has the ability to dissolve karmic seeds (the residue of past-life trauma, attitude, or illness that lodges in the etheric body and has the potential to develop into disease or illness in the present life). It enhances psychic abilities and attunes you to your spiritual purpose. Used in meditation Quartz filters out distractions. At a mental level, Quartz aids concentration and unlocks memory. A wonderful healing crystal for aiding clarity. Quartz is a master healer and can be used for any condition. It stimulates the immune system and brings the body into balance. It harmonizes all of the chakras and aligns the subtle bodies (the layers that relate to the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual levels of being).
ZenJen’s clear Quartz bundle- healing crystals for clarity- coping with divorce
Coping with divorce – Quartz for clarity – zen jewelz by: ZenJen
Coping with divorce- Rose Quartz
Rose Quartz is the stone of unconditional love and infinite peace. It is the most important crystal for the heart and heart chakra, teaching the true essence of love. I needed to truly connect with my self worth and self love in order to be brave enough to follow through with my decision. I wanted to ensure best that i could that i was coming from a loving place while communicating to those around me. Rose Quartz purifies and opens the heart at all levels and brings deep inner healing and self-love. It is calming, reassuring and excellent to use in trauma or crisis. This was a crisis! Rose Quartz gently draws off negative energy and replaces it with loving vibes. It strengthens empathy and sensitivity and aids the acceptance of necessary change. Wearing Rose Quartz enhances positive affirmations. The stone can then remind you of your intention. Emotionally, Rose Quartz is the finest healer. Releasing unexpressed emotions and heartache and transmuting emotional conditioning that no longer serves, it soothes internalized pain and heals deprivation. If you have never received love, Rose Quartz opens your heart so that you become receptive. If you have loved and lost, it comforts your grief. Rose Quartz teaches you how to love yourself, vital if you have thought yourself unlovable. You cannot accept love from others nor love them unless you love yourself. This stone encourages self-forgiveness and acceptance, and invokes self-trust and self-worth. WOW! No wonder why I connected with this healing crystal while coping with divorce!
Other healing crystals to add to your bundle- Labradorite, Aquamarine, Rutilated Quartz
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ZenJen’s bundle- coping with divorce
Labradorite, Aquamarine, Rose Quartz, Rutilated Quartz
Labradorite, a protective stone. A bringer of light. Labradorite deflects unwanted energies from the aura. It forms a barrier of unwanted energies shed during therapy. This healing crystal stimulates intuition and psychic gifts, including the art of “right timing”. It banishes fears and insecurities. Strengthens faith in the self and trust in the universe.
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Aquamarine is a stone of courage. It is a stone to wear to find inner peace. Its calming energies reduce stress and quiet the mind. Psychologically, Aquamarine has an affinity with sensitive people. It has the power to invoke tolerance of others. It overcomes judgmentalism, gives support to anyone who is overwhelmed by responsibility. Encourages taking responsibility for oneself. It creates a personality that is upright, persistent, dynamic and can break old, self-defeating programs. Aquamarine calms the mind, removing extraneous thought. Filters information reaching the brain and clarifies perception, sharpens the intellect, clears up confusion with its ability to bring unfinished business to a conclusion. Aquamarine is useful for closure on all levels. Clears blocked communication. Promotes self-expression. This gemstone is helpful in understanding underlying emotional states and interpreting how you feel. Soothes fears and increases sensitivity.
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Lastly, Rutilated Quartz is excellent for promoting spiritual growth. It draws off negative energy and breaks down the barriers to spiritual progress, letting go of the past. It connects to soul lessons and the plan for the present life. Rutilated Quartz reaches the root of problems and facilitates transitions and change of direction. Emotionally, this healing crystal acts as an antidepressant. it relieves fears, phobias and anxiety, releasing constrictions and countering self-hatred. This stone promotes forgiveness at all levels.
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These are just a few excellent options to help you while coping with divorce or separation. Feel free to email me for an energy assessment to see what gemstones and crystals can support you in your life! Order your healing crystals from my website here. Thank you for reading and shopping.
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Thank you for this article. In September 2016, my husband suddenly left after 18 years. It was shocking and I felt the rug was pulled out from underneath me. I’ve been heartbroken, sad, hurt and very fearful. I walk around a shell of myself. I don’t know too much about crystals but a friend gave me an rose quartz bracelet one day and I started to buy some stones. Thank you for the information and your openness. I’m really trying every avenue to feel better, accept my new reality and move on with my son. Cheers. Christina
Thank you for your article I am one year divorced 9 weeks into Corona lockdown still getting strong after my toxic marriage where he locked me in my house without communication methods. He is already engaged to the new person and I feel utterly worthless and empty. I fear its too late for children and I wasted time I’ll never get back.
Hi Lisa,
I’m sorry to hear about your recent struggles. Sending you many blessings on your journey. Please let me know if I can assist you in finding the perfect healing crystals to bring you some peace and healing.
For women this is the hardest thing to understand, to not take it personally divorce is simply the universe telling you there’s something better for you out there. In this lifetime you chose remember we’re only here to learn. We didn’t come here to be perfect and know everything and to never have challenges. Love yourself, forgive yourself and others, and move on. That’s really it in a nutshell!
Hi Tara!
Well said. Many blessings on your journey.